My exP and I split up before Xmas. It wasn’t all anyone’s fault but just repeated poor communication. To be honest my heart is a bit dented and cracked but I’ve been feeling better. We’ve been no contact for a month but needs to arrange return of stuff. I didn’t realise how raw I felt until he asked if I’d like to just be fuck buddies. I should be angry but I just feel like shit. 3 years and our ongoing argument was about commitment and he really thinks of me as something that could just be a sex toy??
My ex husband asked the same when we were divorcing. Am I that cheap, sad and unattractive that they think I’d be willing to fuck my ex to feel better? I feel like I’ve been kicked. I thought this guy was genuinely lovely, even if we couldn’t make it work I thought he was a thoroughly decent guy. I think I’m going to go and have a good cry. I suppose it shows we made the right decision in ending it. Feel free to call him many thousand types of shit!