Never been keen on sisters DH, some narcisstic tendencies but we all get on ok. However she's had trust issues with him before, nothing huge, but where he's been a bit flirty in texts ages ago.
over Christmas he was been sly with his phone, acting strange and looked to be hiding messages when she walked in the room. Long story short it's come to light he's been messaging one of her friends "offloading". Aparently Nothing more to it(hmm) but it's hurt her and she suspects more to it and he's lying. Obviously she has been very upset over this and it's affected her mental health over Christmas. She feels betrayed and questioning things. This isnt even a close friend, more of an acquaintance who she chats to more than him. The worst bit is apparently he's told her he's mentioned her health issues to her friend which is out of order, personal and I'd say crossing a line. You don't talk about your wife to another woman. I'm fuming about it. Things kicked off and they have spoken together about It all, but it's destroyed her trust now.
However it's not as easy as just LTB.. they have a child with complex Sen and she relies on him financially as dosent work atm. Anyone going or been through it and what did you do. I just want to be there for her.
It'll likely happen again won't it...