Financial

[paddyoaws5385]

I retired in June ,moved from one end of the country to the other ,talking full brunt of cost ,our marriage has been awful for years ,I want out ,but now can’t afford to leave as he is not working and won’t leave, why would he ,he has it all ,he has every excuse known to man ,from wanting to sort our marriage ,no ,I know actions speak louder than words ,I am so sick ,just had covid now have the worst virus I have never in my life been so sick ,,I really don’t see any light at the end of any tunnel,I am the strongest person I know ,it’s crazy ,my life is crazy well that’s me and my life and that’s just a tiny part of it ,,😳

Do not continue to stay in a marriage that in your words, "has been awful for years". What is the point of doing that to yourself?. Why would he leave anyway when he has you to cook and clean for him?.

You only need to give your own self permission to leave and you should make an appointment with a Solicitor asap. Use your move as further impetus to embark on a new life for yourself.

I would seek financial advice. You would be better off in something more modest knowing it is your haven. Hand hold