Finished with selfish man child who like to punish me

[spirallingoncemore]

And could be quite vindictive and sinister at times.
He has subsequently contacted his ex for support as his life is a shitstorm.
She engaged.
The same ex that was a controlling and a psycho bitch.. his words.
I'm struggling with this.
Struggling with all of it.
He was like a man that I never knew at all.
Any words of support or experience dealing with men like this, just for a boost of confidence this morning please ? I'm a bit shaky about it all.
I have blocked him.

Hey, you are doing brilliantly - you've blocked him!

How many threads here have we all read, by women who seem incapable of walking away from abusive men in the early stages of a relationship?

Of course he's gone back to his ex. He has a gaping black hole to fill with Supply, you can't expect him to be all alone can you? 😂He will have Hoovered her back into submission, no doubt with tall tales about MyCrazyExTM (you!). Just like he told you she was crazy ... I bet he has a sting of crazy exes ...

Things to help you feel less shaky, things that will validate you, things that will protect you in future:

www.freedomprogramme.co.uk/online.php

www.amazon.co.uk/Why-Does-He-That-Controlling/dp/0425191656/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

outofthefog.website/toolbox-intro

www.jennisspace.com/the-shark-cage-metaphor-spotting-potential-abusers/

Chin up OP. You trusted your gut, you are free of this arsehole. Well done you

Thanks very much.
I will do the programme as I clearly need it .
His pity/ poor me act and s killing me and meanwhile he is trash talking me no doubt.
I feel duped

Well done. First step is eradicate all traces of this horrible person
you know the drill , especially social media

block him , delete him

and then please do follow advice from the pp

we get into these awful habits and learned behaviours
project is to ensure this doesn’t ever happen again and get your mojo back

all the best x