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embarrassed/scared unsure of what to do

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Boymummy1401 · 10/01/2023 09:22

I am hoping for some advice....

recently ended a very toxic 7 year long relationship after a lot of stress.

After it ended it came to light that he may have cheated (will never admit it).. i went for an STI check and all clear thankfully.

Now, here is where it gets confusing for me, about 3 years in to the relationship i was sorting the bedroom out when some medication fell out of one of his (old) bags..a quick google told me it was treatment for genital warts.. this led to me having a mini meltdown and panic attack. After speaking to him he admitted he had a wart years before meeting me and had had it treated and nothing since. At this point we had been having unprotected SI for a long time.

I have never had any symptom of warts or anything to make me feel like i had it but after having spoken to the nurse at the clinic she told me that i could still be a carrier without symptoms.

Now that i am not in this relationship i am worried about my future.. is this something i would need to bring up with any potential future partners? Although i dont have anything the fact he did and could have given it to me makes me sick.

What would you do?

OP posts:
Watchkeys · 10/01/2023 09:29

I'd contact the clinic and ask them.

Thisisworsethananticpated · 10/01/2023 19:58

Nothing ! You might maybe have HPV
and maybe not

but sooooo many people have it

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