I Don't Know How To Prove It

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I think my husband's having an affair.
Just that.
He comes home from work every afternoon at the same time and within 30 - 60 minutes he's gone again. Every Afternoon. For about 3-4 hours.
This has been going on for maybe the last year or so. He's never ever left again almost as soon as he got home but it's almost every day and he's gone nearly all weekend too.
I wish I knew how to track his whereabouts.
Our marriage is hanging by a thread, not even a thread. I'm just biding my time, saving my money and have plans to leave as soon as I have enough saved up.
Frankly, I've had enough.

Do you need to even prove anything
he’s checked out and your desperately unhappy

you don’t have to stay regardless x

Whether he’s having an affair or not it doesn’t sound a healthy marriage if he disappears like that.

He's out almost all evening, every evening, and most of the weekend. Whether he's cheating or not, is this really a relationship you want to be in?

How on earth has this managed to happen for a whole year!?

I don't think DH or I have ever left the house without saying where we're going.

Does he not say 'bye' when he's leaving?

At which point surely you'd say 'where you off to'?....

This is very strange sounding.