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Ex came back and left within a week.

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Bebenama · 08/01/2023 23:02

Just as the title says, I broke up with my ex 7 weeks ago, for number of reasons like not spending time together, argument about house chores, and future commitments about marriage as I want to get married and he wasn’t clear if he want to be married.

he came back last week begging and pleading for us to give it a try and said he do want to be married and will work on us. so I agree as I still love him and felt there could be a chance to fix us. Well he came to mine on Monday we discussed everything seem to go well, came on Thursday it was beautiful we had, we planned to do something on Saturday and never showed up at the house for us to go. I text him and ask why he stood me up he didn’t reply, an hour later I called him he didn’t answer but send a text saying he lost his phone earlier and was looking for it so he couldn’t contact me, off course I know he is lying so I never reply and he still hasn’t contact me again. I feel he only came back so he can dumped me this time just to have the last laugh? I just don’t get it. What else could this non sense be.

please be kind I’m going through so much stress about this, I know I shouldn’t have taken him back.
I want to call him and get clarity or should I block him?

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Theunamedcat · 08/01/2023 23:03

Block and make sure your locks have been changed if he ever had a key

Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 09/01/2023 00:07

Block. Don’t give him the satisfaction of calling or texting. Block on literally everything.

Starlightstarbright1 · 09/01/2023 00:17

If he wants to play games block.. no need to hurt yourself more

KellyJonesLeatherTrousers · 09/01/2023 07:02

Time to move on - don’t give him any more chances to weedle his way back in - walk away with your pride intact, build yourself back up and find someone who deserves your love when you’re ready.

hoppityscotch · 09/01/2023 07:04

Block him and change your locks. Don't give it another second of your time. He's a waster.

selfindulgentmoaner · 09/01/2023 07:05

You don’t want to be married to a man like this.

call it a lucky escape.

KangarooKenny · 09/01/2023 07:16

Just block him. He won’t like you taking control, but tough.

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