I'm not going to call him DH as per the norm I'm sticking with H! So, for the past two years H has worked a very low paid part-time job as he's supposed to be setting up a business. However, two years later he only has one small job and has taken absolutely no action to build a business. I am more than sick and tired of asking him how things are going and what his next steps are. He starts shouting and saying I'm repeating myself all the time by asking him when he's going to get more work in. The problem is we are struggling for money and I am really outside of my comfort zone in a job I've really had to step up to whilst he's not trying at all. Along with this we argue every day and haven't slept together for 8 years! I am absolutely sick and tired and so stressed out with constant arguments which is no good for DC. I really want to split but he refuses to leave and I don't know what to do from here. This is really affecting my health. I do suffer with anxiety but pretty much get on with things as I'm sure most of us have to!
He keeps saying he going to do XZY but then takes absolutely no action and always has a rubbish excuse why he hasn't increased or built the business he was meant to be building.
I am so desperate to be rid of him it's been going on for years! Going in circles, excuse after excuse. It's really affecting my health and I know it's awful for DC. help!