Have I heard something different from what he meant?

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I am really uncomfortable with my looks. I'm a size 20 and 5'9 and I hate it.

I've been seeing someone since April. He rarely talks about how he feels etc

We were cuddling on the sofa the other day (we don't live together). I came out with 'does it bother you I look like this? That I'm not slim & pretty etc'

He has a lovely body I think - not over weight or skinny just nice

He cuddled me and said 'I'll admit, your body type may not be what I'd say I'd normally go for but when I met you, I liked you and I fell in love with you for you. I hope you don't think you have to change to keep me because you don't'

There is so much more to attraction than your weight. In fact, that’s usually the least interesting thing about you.
He is attracted to many things about you - be that your sense of humour, your particular character traits, interests, etc. and those are things that (unlike weight) is not going to change.
I say he gave a nice, reassuring response. If he wasn’t attracted to you, he wouldn’t be with you.

And I suggest you look up the meaning of the word snooping.

Oops sorry wrong thread