Oral/hand sex differences in circumcised/uncircumcised men

[whatdoyoudowithit]

Thought I'd cut to the chase in the title!

I parted ways with my childhood sweetheart a while ago, and while other things had obviously "gone wrong" in the relationship, sex had not. We always clicked in bed, learned new tricks together, and I - and he - loved, ahem, me giving him head. And "hand jobs".

The thing is, he was circumcised. I am now getting close to contemplating the odd fling, and despite otherwise robust bedroom confidence, I'm nervous about what to do with an uncircumcised fella (well, specifically, a foreskin during oral/hand sex) - if indeed I need to do anything differently at all?

Blimey, can't believe I'm writing this.

Anyway, any experienced ladies willing to advise?!

Off out now - will check in again much later. Thanks.

[MrsTittleMouse]

Oh God, this is embarrassing, but an uncircimcised penis is more sensitive just under the rim (if you see what I mean). The skin pulls back when it's erect, but you can stick your tongue under the bit of skin that is still covering the glans and lick in circles.

[whatdoyoudowithit]

Thank you - helpful.

No aversion to sampling either circumcised or not - just want (a) for it to be clean, and (b) to know if I need to do anything different with au naturel version, having not had fumblings with one since my teens. Posts have answered that - generally no difference, but makes sense re: hand movements, motion, etc. Am feeling more confident.

(Obviously goes without saying that chap needs to be a Nice Bloke too!)

Thanks MrsTittleMouse for final tip. Sounds similar to circumcised tbh - homing in on the frenum, if we're talking about the same vicinity?

Really appreciate advice, ladies. Aren't many places/people you can ask/talk about this!

[bluelad]

I once "went down" on my girlfriend, who was 18 at the time, and nearly gagged. It was vile. Since then, I have sucked many many willies, a lot of them cut but still more uncut, and take it from me, they are ALL just fine. They taste the same - lovely

[AnyFucker]

at ILoveSpring describing a cock as cute

I also think it is rude to have such an over-reaction to sucking an uncircumcised nob, since that is how lovely boys come into the world in the first place

methinks some posters have issues

[veryconfusedandupset]

In my (fairly extensive but rather ancient) experience the circumcised penis can be far less sensitive. One of my circumcised partners found it totally impossible to come through oral sex ( and was very cross with his parents for having him "done") Much prefer un circumcised - the sight of the head emerging from the foreskin with arousal really does it for me.

[dizietsma]

Circumcision is gential mutilation, so I'd always prefer an intact penis.

[dizietsma]

Also, bit rich for women to be talking about the aesthetics of male genitals, non? The vulva is a wonderful thing, but pretty it ain't.

[maltesers]

Once you get your hand on an uncircimcised man you will probably just naturally know what to do IYSWIM. . .just stroke and stroke over the head of his. . . .k. Thing is all men with foreskins are slightly different anyway. . .some tighter that others, some looser. . .You will have to play it by ear. . . (.or by cock )!!!!!

[AnnaBafana]

I don't understand how people can be so vulgar and rude about cut or uncut penises. Grow up!

[HurleySatOnMe]

Calm down people. Bluelad has resurrected this from years ago. I shudder to think what he typed into search to retrieve this one
And who knew, a bit of oral could turn a guy gay

[nikki1978]

My DH is circumcised due to a genetic problem that causes a painfully tight foreskin.

I do find it is harder to bring him to orgasm than it has been with past lovers (he is the first circumcised man I have been with). Oral sex takes a fair bit longer as does a hand job. It does mean I have honed my techniques over time though and have a bloody good BJ techinque even if I do say so myself!

Definitely lots of lube for hand jobs but it is the same action.

The great thing is my husband can sustain an erection for hours and can keep it after he has orgasmed so he can keep going as I take a bit longer

[nikki1978]

Oh sorry you aer worried about being with someone un-cut! I would say don't worry it is much easier to make them orgasm

[QualityTime]

I dunno Hurley, I am sat reading that post over and over as it could be oral turning a guy gay, or a lesbian being turned straight.
Am veyr confused.

[BertieBotts]

Well since the poster's name is bluelad I am guessing he's a he

[QualityTime]

So by that vein bertie you are male, as is JackBauer and numerous other 'male' names

I mean, hairy truckers are normally male but you never know do you? I'd hate to assume!

[saultanpepper]

Speaking from a chap's point of view (to avoid any doubt ) and one who's been 'done'

notveryconfused and nikki1978 are right - at least as far as my experience goes

I do find it difficult to come when given a BJ or hand job - not that it's any less pleasurable for me, but DP says she had a much better success rate (in terms of time taken to get to the finish line) with other partners she's had. The old boy does seem to stay awake for quite awhile afterwards as well, which is handy if she's up for a rematch

I suspect that the glans becomes desensitised after the foreskin is removed...hence more stimulation required.

[saultanpepper]

@dizietsma

Circumcision might in strict terms be mutilation, but in my case very important as without it (when i was about 3) due to a defect in the foreskin I would have suffered a lifetime of infections and pain.

[dizietsma]

Medically necessary circumcision is perfectly acceptable. I have nothing against a circumcised penis in general, my DH has a very pleasant one! I would just prefer that baby boys not be subjected to unnecessary genital mutilation because "foreskins are gross" etc.

So to modify my earlier statement, I prefer intact penises wherever medically possible because circumcision for cultural reasons is genital mutilation.

[poshsinglemum]

LOL at bossykate. I can imagine asking every man with an uncircumsised willy to get it done before giving head! If you ever slept around did you carry a scalpel in your handbag?!

[forehead]

Sorry, i can't suck on an uncut willy. Gross

[pooka]

Not gross.

As nature intended.

Can be (and by and large are) scrupulously clean.

[pantaloons]

My Dh is without, but when I asked his mum after having a DS of my own (and being paranoid about everything!) She claimed he has never been circumsised. Bit weird really as he doesn't have a foreskin, and it can't have just vanished!

[pooka]

Maybe it got rubbed away? Overuse? ;)

[pantaloons]

Hmm, one too many teenage wanks!

[foureleven]

easier on non circumsised as you can move the skin up and down rather than rely on lots of lubrication with cicumsized.

I always found non circumsised took longer to get an erection but now I am with DP who is non circumsised and he stands to attention in a split second... enjoy your new love life op!