my daughter is almost 2!!
Sex life with husband hasn't been great since she arrived and i'm starting to worry about it - I think we've actually has sex about 10 times ! Attempted it a few more times but got interrupted by crying toddler.
We had a few nights away by ourselves and it was all great while we were away which makes me feel it's not that we don't want it anymore or that we aren't attracted to each other - but seem to struggle with it at home.
This weekend we got into it but it was after a few drinks and it was 1am when we went to bed - In the back of my mind was the fact it was so late and that my daughter was going to wake at 6 and how little sleep I was going to get and it just ruined the vibe and I couldn't get into it at all.
What do we do -schedule it in? we have chatted about it and I suggested we make more of an effort to go to bed earlier at the weekend (we tend to stay up too late together playing playstation games or watching a film)
We both work full time, i'm doing a college course as well and we are literally out the door at 7.30 everyday and home around 6 - then we have the usual rush for bath/bed/getting our dinner/getting things ready for tomorrow!
I have to attend online lecture on a Thursday evening and I am doing assignments too.
We are both absolutely shattered most evenings and it's straight to bed asleep.
Anyone got any suggestions to help me fix this!
I breastfed my daughter until a few months ago and before I stopped i wasn;t really very interested in sex either which also was a problem - but it seems to be back now and I do want to get back to it!