Good morning.
I have been with my partner for three years, we both have children from past relationships.
I can't ask for anything more in regards to support etc. we don't live together. However that was very much a plan once.
When I have asked about our future, which he says he wants. But now won't put a timescale on it.
I am trying not to be unreasonable. But when I broached the subject. I was told, this is the cards we have been dealt. He works, I work. We have kids. He is a jui jitsu trainer 4 times a week. We are busy and need to book eachother in??!!
This hurts me considerably.
Is that how you talk about you partner? Am I being difficult and rushing things. I don't think I can spend another year, with being slotted in to someone's life.
All I wanted was a loving relationship that progresses hopefully.
A female perspective would be appreciated. I feel really sad about this because I love this man very much .