Name changed as may be outing with other posts.
Situation in short is this- fairly long term relationship, expecting a child together. Broke up officially early in the pregnancy, however both have wanted to work things out (I would say the male has done most of the chasing though) and for most of the pregnancy there have only been a couple of weeks here and there where there has been no communication.
They have continued to speak mostly every day, spend time together in public and in private, have been sleeping together the entire time. For the most part not much has changed from them being an "official" couple, however the female moved back into her own house so there is less time spent together over all.
As time has gone on, whenever the female has queried certain things such as plans to do with when baby is born etc. the response of the male is that this is unfair as "we haven't been in a relationship since X date" and "I've never asked you to be my gf again and you've never asked me to be your bf".
Female feels this is wrong as although neither have ever officially asked each other to be "bf/gf" or "back together", she feels they have carried on a relationship as such, albeit an on/off one it is still an ongoing relationship. Of course she isn't trying to force him into a relationship now and has backed off giving him the benefits of the relationship that he claims isn't one, however she finds his definition quite juvenile.
Wondered what other peoples views are on this?