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My sister likes Andrew Tate....

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Somethingborrowed21 · 02/01/2023 07:22

She posted a video on social media of Andrew Tate. He was basically saying the government and people in power didn't like him because he has influence and power over people.

I messaged her and said do you like this man? She replied she likes most of his stuff and that he speaks alof of sense around business and when he talks about the matrix. Although she didn't like his stuff about women.

I said you do realise why he moved to Romania and the reasons behind being arrested and that he targets young children on games.
All she replied with is she finds it very interesting how much influence and power Andrew has and that the "elite" people in the world don't like it.

I'm absolutely shocked. We both have young children. I don't get how she cannot see that this man is a predator to women and young children. I now see her in a completely different light.
I don't know if I can move past this. I myself have been in abusive relationships and I just think it's awful that my sister supports this sorry excuse of a person.

Would you feel the same?

OP posts:
BigMandsTattooPortfolio · 14/04/2023 11:33

As soon as someone starts on about the ‘Matrix’ I just stop listening. I can’t believe adult people can behave like this.

CatalinaV · 14/04/2023 11:36

I wish all men were like Tate. I don't like famine types.

chemicalworld · 14/04/2023 11:55

I've never met a famine type

DismantledKing · 14/04/2023 12:00

CatalinaV · 14/04/2023 11:36

I wish all men were like Tate. I don't like famine types.

You wish that all men were sex-trafficking misogynists?

greenlychee · 14/04/2023 12:11

i had a long term male friend who basically told me that he was "misunderstood" and not necessarily a bad guy. He cited an interview with Piers Morgan that he watched (I've not watched it) and apparently it made him see him in a different light (has anyone seen it? If so what was your opinion??).

I'm reassessing my friendship with this person because I don't know if I can maintain our friendship with someone who believes this (for info, this person has also said other iffy comments over the years).

Would love to hear from others what they think of this opinion of his, that Tate is somehow "misunderstood"????!

suburbophobe · 14/04/2023 12:19

Utterly creepy his influence over impressionable young men.

KleineDracheKokosnuss · 14/04/2023 12:24

greenlychee · 14/04/2023 12:11

i had a long term male friend who basically told me that he was "misunderstood" and not necessarily a bad guy. He cited an interview with Piers Morgan that he watched (I've not watched it) and apparently it made him see him in a different light (has anyone seen it? If so what was your opinion??).

I'm reassessing my friendship with this person because I don't know if I can maintain our friendship with someone who believes this (for info, this person has also said other iffy comments over the years).

Would love to hear from others what they think of this opinion of his, that Tate is somehow "misunderstood"????!

Well, it all depends on what you’ve seen. His feeds on YouTube are about 85% reasonable guy, 15% sexist wine boy (percentages may vary in your perception depending on whether you lean left or right).

The piers Morgan interview- he came over well.

i don’t like everything he says, but he’s not the devil, not an idiot, and if the sister has only seen the above, there’s no real reason she shouldn’t think he’s ok.

And yes, there are various legal activities ongoing - but it’s also notable that we have innocent until proven guilty plus the Romanians have been investigating for well over 1.5 years now and haven’t charged him. Which is not a good look for their investigation.

OP - how much do you actuall Know about him? Have you listened to hear what he says and formed your own views, or is your opinion of him simply reflecting the current ‘Tate is bad’ reporting? If the former, you can actually discuss it with her. If the latter, you will fall at the first hurdle (the question ‘name something you have seen him say that you didn’t like’).

chemicalworld · 14/04/2023 12:28

I have watched plenty of what he hsa to say. His attitude towards women are disgusting. Pretty easy to find things that are objectionable.

KleineDracheKokosnuss · 14/04/2023 12:42

chemicalworld · 14/04/2023 12:28

I have watched plenty of what he hsa to say. His attitude towards women are disgusting. Pretty easy to find things that are objectionable.

Then presumably you’d be able to have a proper discussion about it. Unlike the vast majority who simply parrot whatever the ‘accepted’ view is.

i personally don’t like the way he talks about women who sleep with lots of men. But I do understand what he says about what men are looking for in a partner (which underpins the former attitude).

I also think his attitude about what men are for and should do is based on a veryhyper masculine approach. But I do think men and women have different societal approaches and roles.

All his comments are things that could be responded to with engaged and intellectual discussion. And not everyone will like his views, but they’re far from illegal and an approach of ‘Tate is bad, no debate’ won’t get anyone anywhere positive.

Whichwitchhasanitch · 14/04/2023 12:47

She’s obviously been influenced by him then hasn’t she?
That’s what he’s about !
The unthinking and most vulnerable in society are his targets.
I hope he gets locked up for a very long time.

Moser85 · 14/04/2023 15:17

Massive conspiracy theorist. I've listened to it all about how the government created covid to try control us and there's a new world order etc. I haven't said much about all this however when it comes to this awful man I don't think I can sit back and say anything.

Oh, this is easy then 😂Tell her lots of people think he's actually a plant to lead the 'awakened' people the wrong way.....tell her to look it up and do her research 😂

User135644 · 14/04/2023 19:25

Tate is a flagrant narcissist and a manipulator, he knows how to influence impressionable people.

DismantledKing · 14/04/2023 20:33

He’s a big fucking nonce, and with that stupid cigar stuffed in his face he looks like Jimmy Savile’s simple nephew.

Naunet · 15/04/2023 10:05

CatalinaV · 14/04/2023 11:36

I wish all men were like Tate. I don't like famine types.

Thanks for proving his supporters are idiots. Famine types 🤣
You keep chasing after insecure, rapey men who talk in fake American accents though if that’s what does it for you, it helps keep them away from the rest of us.

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Stop spamming threads with this rubbish

Marchintospring · 02/06/2023 00:12

I admit I’ve read nothing of Andrew Tate or even heard of him before he got into the press. I’ve still never bothered to read his stuff.
However she’s right that he has lots of influence.
I’d just remind her that people who have been the best at talking and are good at persuading are often the last people you should listen to. They are just really good at saying things effectively.
Fantastic if you want someone to teach GCSE’s . Less so on a world stage.

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And Tate is a chinless, goofy looking loser with a fake accent. What’s your point? Should only pretty women be allowed on TV? Did Tate teach you that? 🙄
Would love to know how he’s got more manners than her when he talks about women like they’re shit on his shoe….

fuckmyuteruslining · 02/06/2023 08:10

He's a misogynistic thug. And this is an old thread so hopefully the sister has seen that now.

Thepleasureofyourcompany · 02/06/2023 08:12

My PARENTS think AT is worth listening to, despite having daughters and granddaughters.

Massive conspiracy theorists, agoraphobic, germophobes who are probably mentally ill. Influenced by my dB who lives with them.

I don't talk to them.

shadowchancesassy · 02/06/2023 09:26

@Naunet I didn't mentions her looks. But you did though? Why don't you think she's pretty?

Her interviewing was pointless she kept repeating questions he'd already answered. She could have done her research before the interview, after all she's suppose to be a journalist.

She refused to say good bye or shake his hand. She was in his home the least she could have said is bye. She's suppose to be professional.

The only girls he's spoke badly about in my opinion are the likes of only fans girls. Which he's not wrong about 🫤 he has a daughter I'm sure he's not a female hating predator.

50450750q · 02/06/2023 09:39

CatalinaV · 14/04/2023 11:36

I wish all men were like Tate. I don't like famine types.

Dear god, please be a troll.

BodegaSushi · 02/06/2023 10:15

Well, women date serial killers, so I suppose it's not the most shocking thing

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