I'm just writing to see if I can get some advise as I don't have anyone to talk about my relationship openly
I've been with my partner for nearly 10 years (not married). We have 2 kids and we bought a house in February.
When he isn't working he is all the time with his phone and I have to keep asking him to do stuff around the house and help me with the kids. Sometimes I feel like I have 3 kids and I'm so fed up.
This is an ongoing issue for the past few years. We talk about it, he try his best for a few days but then he's back to the same point.
Also when we argue he always say to me go away from our house as he feels the family house belong more to him than to me just for the fact that their parents helped us with the deposit but we both pay the mortgage half each and we both own the house
At the moment I just try to avoid him, he thinks just with a kiss can solve everything when actually that annoyed me even more. Also sexually I don't feel attracted to him like I used to be.
My point I guess is that I don't know how to end the relationship as I feel so overwhelmed just thinking about the house the kids and also I don't have any direct family in UK as I'm from spain