Handhold

[Stressyfab]

first Post have been lurking for a little while.
just if anybodies about could I have a handhold please.
5 months pregnant, New Year’s Eve and he’s walked out, moved all his
stuff out because it’s ‘just not like it was’
I’m completely on my own and panicking

Well done OP, you are seeing clearly and looking after yourself and your baby. You’ve been saved from years of misery and abuse from this man.

Good luck!

Too much of a coward to do whilst your mum is there @Stressyfab

@Whatevergetsyouthroughthenight i am getting close to maternity leave soon too so all the time for self care and love! Thankyou 😭🖤
@Hepzibar precisely. Must be nice having no spine🙄

@Stressyfab sorry you're going through this x
I had my bubba and in less than 2 weeks of just giving birth my husband completely changed and asked if i want a divorce.
Stay strong for your bubba, you got this 💪
Sending you happy vibes x

How horrible op. He sounds like an immature manchild.

At five months, you've got four months to get your head straight and prepare for your baby. Awful as it is, your situation is probably better than a man walking off just before birth or when you have a newborn.

You'll manage. It's his loss.

Happay new year OP hugs you’ll get this sorted your mum was right it seems as well. Look forward now to April and baby coming.

Aw OP, you sound lovely. You will get through this.

1. Make sue you eat, even if only simple foods (soup, beans on toast, scrambled egg or a baked potato with a lashings of butter n cheese 😋) Same goes with hydration, even a bucket of tea is better than nothing.
2. Speak out, I hope you can speak to your mum. She will have your back. Can you invite a friend over tonight or go to a friends for a change of scenery.
3. Get your ducks in a row tomorrow so you can make headway on Tuesday when the world is running again. *Maintenance, so it is in the system *Council Tax, single person household *Possible help with Universal Credit *Important documents sorted, this will make life easier and stress free later. It may not seem like it now but you WILL be OK xx