I've dumped him for one silent treatment and DARVO too many but am refelcting making sure I never allow anyone of his sort into my life or bed ever again.I've been thinking about our intimate life. Can I ask you to read this and to give your opinion if you think these are typical behaviours or was it a 'me' problem please? He never once told me I was beautiful/attractive etc nor did he comment either way on my body.He wasn't hugely into kissing me.He was kind of selfish in that he was happy to pleasure me but not orally. It was important to him that I had an orgasm but was often rushed and then he would say..'job done' with a smug smile. He had no problems with erections but could rarely cum unless he finished himself off or a two second doggy style.He could however cum from masturbation. He said he did watch porn but not regularly. He was affectionate but not in public ie didnt like holding hands etc outside of the house. He often turned over a little while after sex and fell asleep, rarley holding,hugging etc.He often said he got too hot. He said on a regular basis that he enjoyed our intimate life more than he ever had before but I think what he meant was that he enjoyed all the attention I stupidly gave to him.i was far too giving, stupidly.Can I have your thoughts on this please?