Need help

[iwillsowhatittskes]

I really need help.

I have two DDs and have raised them the same. They both have completely different personalities. The oldest (5) is like me and the youngest (3) is like his dad. The youngest is very sociable and very easy going and has hi dads personality. He looooooooves me.

My eldest has my personality. He is so intelligent and has amazing school reports. He is shy with people he doesn't know.

He is so horrible to me and only is nice to his dad. I have shown him nothing but love - attention - fun- alongside structure and and routine.

It makes me so so sad. He tells me he doesn't like me and he only likes his dad. People are much closer to my youngest as he is much more sociable and easy to get on with. I make much more money effort with my eldest but only get rejected. Please help me

Two DSs**

My daughter is nearly 3, we go through phases of her just wanting only daddy. At points she would scream at me to leave them alone, it was hurtful. Having researched it awhile back, it seems fairly common. I mentioned it to my DH and he found some helpful tips online, when my daughter was playing with DH he would say should we ask mummy to play with us? Isn’t mummy so nice to make us food we should say thanks etc this really helped, so praising and inviting mummy to play or participate!

Thank you. I will definitely pass that onto my DH