Looking for advice whether I’ve done the right thing. My ex and I separated in April this year, since then he has acted appallingly. Kept telling me he wants to sort things out, then never communicated like an adult, told DS he was coming home, but mum wouldn’t let him (when I never saw him to even discuss our relationship). He emptied our house without warning, cancelled our wedding without telling me. My poor DS has seen it all as he’s acted so badly. He ignores any message from me and states he is too busy to reply. He has only seen DS a handful of times, never taken him to his house, refuses to commit to regular days and will only message him rather than call. Over Christmas he didn’t get him a present, didn’t see him or take him to a fun day that he attended on Boxing Day, despite knowing he would of loved it. Today I told him he either needed to give regular days (work permitting) or I felt the inconsistency was detrimental to DS. He stated that he only wanted to see him as and when he can, and he would contact DS direct (he’s 12 yrs old) and that was as much as he could offer. He would never have him over night. So I’ve told him that is not good enough, and blocked him from DS phone. I’ve told him if he ever wants to step up and be a proper father, then I will always allow that, but until then we are both moving on with our lives without any involvement from him. I have not told DS I have blocked him from his phone. I feel awful, but tell me it was the right/wrong move?