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Would you be ok with this ?

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ok1992 · 28/12/2022 14:02

Hello

Hope you all had a lovely Christmas,

I have a dilemma.

So me and my husband have been having a few issues, we been abit lost with where we are,
So I remember him telling me his cousin is visiting from a different country in the new year. He hasn't seen him in over 8 years. He is going to go to London to see him.
What I don't remember him mentioning to me is he is going to visit him on the 31st December which obviously means we won't be spending new year together, now we have been together for 5 years but he has only been living here for the last 2 years, so this would be our second new years.
Now I'm really hurt about this, now I'll be spending new years alone and to me it's very selfish of him to organise seeing him on new years without asking if I'm ok also it feels like he doesn't give a damn about me because surely he would want to spend new years with his own wife?

Am I crazy here ? Or would you be annoyed/hurt too?

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smellydog1 · 01/06/2023 23:31

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Festivfrenzy · 02/06/2023 08:15

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I think as a grown woman with grown children you can do what you like! Unless you're expecting him to pay towards it? I know loads of couples who take separate holidays with friends/family members and it's absolutely fine.
You might want to post this as a new thread if you want more responses x

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