I split up with my ex 2 months ago, last mutual interaction (texts) we had was 5 weeks ago. It was pretty toxic towards the end. The past few months he has constantly compare me to his ex (his DD18s mum) and try to make me jealous, especially now we have broken up. It didn't affect me and in the end I'd had enough and ended it, also blocked his number.
Since then he's sent frequent messages and voicemails ranging from Abusive to trying to make me jealous (persuader tactic, i know) & begging for me back. He would even turn up at my door several times a day but wouldn't let him in.
Fast forward to Today (specifically) he has left me several voicemails of him crying, shouting, etc telling me he loves me, just wants to spend Christmas with me blah blah...
About an hour ago he sent me an ultimatum stating... "you have a fucking choice, you either take me as I am right now and spend today with me or I go see my daughter and fuck my c**t of an ex, you'll regret it not me"
I don't really know why I'm posting, maybe for a rant, because i dont really care if he goes back to her, I just want to be left alone. I'm trying to move on with my life, attend courses, work etc and its Christmas frigging day!! I really don't need this shit for the rest of my life.