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Did he not have feelings for me?

6 replies

Andzhella · 24/12/2022 18:05

Hi everyone. I'm 24. I wanted to ask - I have been talking with one guy for two and a half years. I can’t say that there was a serious relationship between us. At his request, I sent him photos many time. Of course, we talked about other topics on a video call, and over time, I began to develop feelings for him.
A month ago, he stopped replying to my messages, although he used to reply quickly. I began to worry - I texted him and even called. He said that the internet was not working well. From his Instagram, I found out that he has female model friend, and somehow I saw that they were spending time together in Greece. I started to get even more jealous and continued to text him. He was offended at me because I was watching his friend's story and blocked me, explaining that he was uncomfortable. (She had a birthday)
I still feel bad about being attached to him. Lost the meaning of life. Come to think of it, it's not such a big mistake that it couldn't be forgiven. After that, I apologized several times from another account. Before, we never had misunderstandings, we supported and understood each other. He used to say that he wanted to come to my country, but for these two years there was no action on his part. I even sent him gifts.
Did he not have feelings for me? Do you think they actually dated?
Thanks

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PenanceAdair · 24/12/2022 18:08

Oh goodness! Please let this person go. He's not for you, not into you and will only continue to take from you while making you think he's doing you a favour. You don't owe him any apologies and he's awful.

Find someone else who truly cares - you deserve it.

C1N1C · 24/12/2022 18:11

Yeah, he's lost interest. No other way to put it really.

RememberNancyDrew · 24/12/2022 18:12

How many times have you met up in person?

tunthebloodyalarmoff · 24/12/2022 18:27

Well nothing is going to come of this so just forget him now and stop wasting time.

Sandra1984 · 24/12/2022 18:35

You were never in a relationship with this man, you just chatted and had a few phone calls. He just saw you as an online buddy. Had he been interésted in you more than that he would have come to visit you or paid a flight for you to come. Now he has a girlfriend and you’re stalking this poor man who never promised you anything. You need to move on and find yourself a nice IRL model boyfriend and go on holidays too. Sorry for the reality check.

Pinkbonbon · 24/12/2022 18:39

Sorry love, but you sent him gifts (and by photos do you mean nudes?)

Best case scenario, he was a friend who never intended to be more. Worst case scenario, he used you for gifts and attention.

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