Right, so I have decided to ghost my “close friend”.
We were so close , my only close friend but this year has been a struggle. We used to message daily and gone from that to nothing. She will message me now and then saying miss you and the next message would be about work asking for help with her projects.
Anytime I message I hardly get anymore replies. When I do she just says sorry I’m really busy.
Now I get we are all busy but I also believe you make time for those you want. The fact that she can meet up with other friends, constantly message on group chat tells me it’s a choice.
she also made me feel worried and anxious as all she started doing was sharing her problems ( which was fine) but never used to update me making me wonder what is happening.
I feel a bit dumb as I invested a lot of time and energy into this friendship but can see it’s now one way.
I’m feeling hurt and it’s a bit painful (sorry sounds silly) and I just want to get over it. I’ve blocked her. I know she will probably message saying I miss you then ask for help with her projects. We work at the same place but different departments. Some days I don’t see her. I’m off till just after Jan and hoping if I don’t hear from her and I don’t contact her it will be easy to let go of this friendship.
If anyone has been through anything similiar could you please let me know of ways to distract myself.
thanks ( sorry if my post is all over the place)