Hi everyone,
I have a situation going on and wondered if anyone had any advice.
I met a guy back a few months ago and things were going so well but he was having family issues and wasn’t in the right headspace. During this time, I supported him and tried so hard. After the first month he basically said he couldn’t get into a relationship with the situation and I was pretty gutted because we did really get on. He really started messing me around with it, not turning up, ignoring me for days on end and just not being nice. He then didn't speak to me for a month.
Following this he messaged me once a week asking if I was okay but nothing me. He didn't turn up when we’ve arranged things and generally has not been the best. I kind of gave up on him because I was getting nothing back and he explicitly said to me “you’re single and can do what you want”, “I don’t want a relationship right now” and "you're not my priority" etc.
I ended up having a very drunken one night stand about two weeks ago when all of this was going on (I don’t even remember anything).
Fast forward to the past few weeks and we’ve kind of rekindled things. He apologised for this actions and said he wanted to try properly to make things work between us. I told him what had happened with me out of respect because its a small town and his reaction was annoyed to say the least. He seemed alright about it at first and got over it but after a week took it rather badly.
He says he “had the chance to do the same but didn’t because of me” and “can’t get his head around why I’d do that”. Bare in mind I don’t remember the whole thing and he told me he didn’t want me… I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong. I’ve apologised and said I understand he’s upset/jealous (his words) but I really don’t think I’m in the wrong following his actions. He has now ignored me for the past 4 days, told me he "doesn't want to see me or speak to me" and is making me really upset just before xmas.
Have I done anything wrong here?