Is he interested?

[Elusivelady]

So, I got chatting to a guy on social media that I hadn’t seen for 16 years (we went to school together) I’ve always had a secret crush on him!

he asked me out, (I presume on a date) I left it upto him what we did and he said he was thinking just a drink for the first time. So anyway we went for a drink on Monday, we were there for about an hour we just had one drink each the conversation was flowing but wasn’t particularly flirty. Anyway when we left he asked me for a ‘love’ a hug where we come from haha.

anyway we have been talking since and I asked if he would be interested in going out again and he has said yes he would.

woulr I be to forward to ask his intentions? Or should I let it flow?

or would you take the fact he’s said yes to going out again it’s a date?

Seems very clear he likes you, yes to another date and absolutely nothing out of the ordinary! Let it flow, don't overthink it.

Yeah that's deffo a date! Have fun. Don't overthink it and spend the time working out if you like him in that way!

Go with the flow. Asking about intentions could make him run a mile at this stage.

Go with the flow! The best relationships build slowly and based on friendship. Just go and try to keep a lid on expectations.
He might be a future bf or a friend, either way just let things unravel in their own good time. If he's the one for you, nothing will stop that.

Go with the flow
i have recently made the mistake of having an intentions conversation quite early and have cocked the whole thing up ☹️

enjoy!!! How exciting!!

Go with the flow. I’ve been on 2 dates with someone. I didn’t drink first date, did second and we had a lovely kiss at the end. Date 3 planned

Hmm it wasn't flirty, he asked for a hug and you had to ask him for a second date? I would leave the ball in his court now as I would be wondering if you'd been friend zoned and he was just being polite when he said he would go out with you again.

Maybe, he is ready to settle down to and doesn’t want to screw it up.

you are both in your thirties from the sound of it, so a little bit more experienced to take things slower, even though in your head, you want to be married to him etc etc

Good luck xxx

It sounds like he is interested to me. I'm not one that says men and women can't be just friends, but it's not normally in this type of situation.