Half brother 12 years younger than me, lived with his Mum and Stepdad, visited our shared Dad at weekends once a month when he was older, when I was younger I would see him at the weekend and once in the week. (I’m 33 he must be 22?) He got a girlfriend and started staying with her more and more, eventually moved in with her and cut off his Mum and Grandparents. Had lived with his half Sister who was 5ish at the time but completely cut her off too. Ignored her in the supermarket even though she ran after him calling his name. A few months later he then went NC with me and Dad and our side of the family.
His justification to Dad was, you remind me of Mum and my old life too much(?)
I’ve not seen or spoken to him since my firstborn was nearly 6 months old (she’s now coming up to 5!) I’ve had another child now who is 1 that he knows nothing about. I’ve attempted contact over the years, had a few messages from his Girlfriend at the start of lockdown but nothing. I get it. He doesn’t care and doesn’t want anything to do with us.
It’s been playing on my mind a lot recently, I’m confused I don’t know why he has chosen this route. I need closure but how do I get it if I can’t speak to him?
I don’t really know what I’m posting for, I guess I need some help with working through it all and drawing a line under it so I can move on with my life. I found his limited Instagram account and have seen pictures this year, checked out his LinkedIn (well aware he gets notifications I’ve been looking too!) I need help!