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wowmummy · 17/12/2022 11:45

Hi all

So hubby over the past week has had a infection in the side of his face so has got antibiotics/eye drops etc. I've done it all for him and made sure he's rested as it's Christmas I don't want him feeling rubbish.

So today he's gone back to work and he's fully fit. I did the (dreaded) elf on the shelf and came downstairs and did the whole surprised 'look what the naughty things are doing now' and he just came down and said 'do you have to' and I just thought ffs.

Last night I was cuddling up to him and kissing him - not necessarily wanting sex but just being together and he was just doing big sighs as I was kissing and cuddling him. So I stopped but I just don't get his problem?

Now I'm of those people who doesn't argue if I can help it as it just doesn't get you anywhere but I am hurt as I was just trying to be light hearted

But now I feel I can't bother him

Also I know I can't help being an amazing actress 😉 but ok, yes I will calm the seeing the naughty elves thing down 😂😂😂

OP posts:
Tsort · 17/12/2022 12:00

This is a somewhat disjointed post. What are you asking?

Imafirework · 17/12/2022 12:16

He sounds like an ungrateful tosser.
You sound lovely and too good for him.

wowmummy · 17/12/2022 13:47

Haha no I'm not lovely and too good for him, he gets the 'oh bet she's high maintenance' comments

Suppose I'm really asking what could be wrong with him? Could it be because he's been ill and not at work?

OP posts:
piedbeauty · 17/12/2022 16:30

How do we know? You will have to ask him!

gamerchick · 17/12/2022 16:35

I'm an utter nightmare if I have pain from the neck up. Absolutely awful to be around. I just can't cope with it. The irritation can last a little while after due to not sleeping properly during it.

If it drags on I'd be having a chat though.

Zanatdy · 17/12/2022 19:29

Is he usually grumpy when unwell?

frozendaisy · 17/12/2022 20:01

Just put on a great kick ass Spotify music session in kitchen when cooking loud, fuck you music. I can give you a playlist it's all, almost all, female lead singers.

Let him sit on the sofa. Alone

Who cares?
He can let life be miserable. If he realises he can't bring you down as well he can decide to keep up or fuck off.

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