Low Libido, just trawled back through other threads and found Damiana !

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Morning all,

Can anyone help please. Have just discovered a herbal remedy called Damiana, never heard of it before or been recommended it.

Has anyone got any experience of it and what was it please !

I tried it but it made zero difference. I found out about it on here so have a search.

oops you have done that!

Thanks msappropriate, any other tips pls ?

Have got to the end of the road with this our DD is nearly 8 and my sex drive came out and droveoff when I had her really.

Now becoming very destructive in the relationship.

no not really sorry. Mine came back albeit greatly diminished after about 18 months or so after first baby and is not returned after second as even more tired! Somewhere on here it says in America they prescribe testosterone. I think though that the more you do it the more you want to. But thats quite hard to you are not in the mood to start with. I knwo what you mean about being destructive in relationships though. Its tough

Yes my GP mentioned testosterone but think they rarely do it coz of the side affects. Will trundle off to Holand and Barrett and try the Damiana, gotta be cheaper than more sessions at Relate !!!

Thank u, nice to know am not alone.

Testosterone is amazing but you can become hooked on being the person that it turns you into, if you see what I mean. It can cause agressiveness, pushiness, etc. so your dh may not like the personality changes, should you experience any. I think his attitude often has a lot to do with this issue. Sometimes sex is just one more chore before you go to sleep, if they just keep on and on and on about it. Get a 'toy' to help get you back in the swing, maybe?