Long story short been together for about 2 years, long distance but see each other regularly as it’s not too far and he spends time with my DC/ met my friends. His DC are grown and live abroad in a different city.
Found out recently the divorce was actually stopped just before we met so he is still married! I am pretty angry about this lie.
I need to end it don’t I just based on this.
Turns out his DC don’t know about me - he told
me they knew he was seeing someone! -which should have been the giveaway, he was upset at this point but I think it’s more guilt at being so dishonest. He wanted to make sure we were in for the long haul before telling them. He’s taken me for a ride by the sounds of it more like it.
I found out as he’s going home for Christmas and I said that isn’t it time to think about cutting the apron strings and he admitted that he’s got himself into a mess with the divorce so put it on hold and needs to go back for the sake of his DC. I call BS on all that but after 2 years I feel I’ve been really really taken for a ride.
I know I need to end it but wanted to vent here first as I’m angry at the stolen time. And yes hurt and upset.