So partner came home with a large parcel today full with gym bags (he’s a trainer). He said he bought them as Christmas gifts for his clients. I do think that’s a bit ridiculous… fair enough a gift set/box of chocolates for your clients but each bag costs £25 and there was atleast 10. he told me I am being ‘toxic’ for being unhappy that he bought them all a bag. However my reason was that he doesn’t need to spend that much and he could’ve used that money for our bills.
he got the parcel delivered to someone else’s address (he uses multiple other womens addresses to get things delivered to as sometimes our address is awkward to find). He will never tell me who they are although I’ve found out a few by myself. He always rips off the address labels so I can’t see.
He was ripping off the address label and started trying to wind me up saying ‘you didn’t see the name! You don’t know who it was’ sticking his tongue out like a child. At first I just said ok I don’t care because I don’t want to acknowledge the petty behaviour but he continued to repeat it just to get a reaction from me and even said ‘I was there till 2/3pm’. That annoyed me as he’s deliberately trying to wind me up about going to another females address to collect his parcel, refusing to tell me who and saying he was at their place till 2/3pm (which I thought was weird as he’d usually be home at 12pm).
now on his behalf he has just seen that whole situation as a joke and a laugh and not serious but to me I’m tired of turning a blind eye to this childish behaviour. We have kids together and I found out he cheated for a year, so the fact I’ve given him another chance and we’ve been working on the relationship and things have been going very well, I don’t get why he’d play childish games to make me feel insecure.
when he was trying to get a reaction out of me I told him ‘don’t make me say something that will annoy you’ and now he’s saying that I have caused all the issue tonight and started it all!