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My libido has died

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Pecanpie12 · 06/12/2022 16:12

My libido has been incredibly low for the past two years. Been with my partner 4 years. The first year we were together it was amazing. But ever since then, it almost makes me feel sick and I simply do not want it. When I was younger, I was a rampant rabbit and loved having sex with my boyfriends and was quite exotic in the bedroom. Im now 26 and I feel like my vagina has shrivelled up inside of me and I'm no where near the menopausal age.
I know I want sex, but just not with my partner. Any advice?

OP posts:
MermaidEyes · 06/12/2022 16:15

Get a new partner? Sorry, maybe not the best advice but I think you need to figure out why you don't want sex with him anymore and whether it can be rectified.

Duplocrocs · 06/12/2022 16:16

Are you on the pill? Think it’s common side effect

VioletLemon · 06/12/2022 16:16

Move on from this relationship, it's not for you.

Waxxy · 06/12/2022 16:21

Have you got the ick OP?

Pecanpie12 · 06/12/2022 16:49

Yes, feel as though I have the ick. But I love him dearly, we are very compatible together and good friends. We bought a house two years ago and I was hoping it would encourage our sex life but it's got worse. I just don't want sex with him, he doesn't turn me on. He's a nice looking man with a lovely figure too. I'm also not in the pill, I came off 5 months ago hoping this would help me but still... nothing. God help me!

OP posts:
ClareBlue · 06/12/2022 21:05

Your thread is right above two threads about sex less marriages and hundred posts about how people have never come back from it. There seems to be numerous reasons why people stop desiring sex with each other, often not really known why or for any specific reason. But there are very few posts where it has been turned around. Some accept it because of other reasons and some leave the relationship.
If it doesn't work for you then you have to move on.

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