So this is only my side to the story.
My partner tends to pick my insecurities and suggest I change them. "Maybe try not apologising so much". "Maybe try being more optomistic".
He is always calling me a hypocrite but I feel like this is a distraction technique to defer that it's really him that the hypocrite but again that's only my side.
I honestly constantly doubt he even likes me the way he talks about me.
When we have a conversation it's his way or the highway.
Anything I want he pretty much disagrees with and tell me no. I want a cat after mine died he said no. I wanted to put up the Xmas tree early he said no. Sounds petty but it's true.
We constantly disagree about parenting and it usually unfolds how he wants.
I feel so unheard. I feel so lonely, lost, insecure and totally exhausted by trying to fight a self entitled human being.
I can't leave him because of my son. Please suggest how I can stop this pattern from continuing? I'm desperate and not functioning. He said he is getting whiplash over my moods but I'm so sad 😞