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Dating questions

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Mimi198 · 03/12/2022 05:41

Hi!
I don't really have much experience in dating. Had just one serious boyfriend. So, in september, I had a new coworker for a 6 weeks contract. A very funny /extrovert guy. Difficult to judge if he can be interested in me, he talks to everyone. On my side, I really have a LOT in common with him, found him attractive, kind....I took the bus a few times with him after work. So, on his last day of work, I had the courage to talk to him about a museam I wanted to visit and asked him if he wanted to go with me. Just that. No blah blah. He said yess and we exchanged our phone numbers. That was last friday. He contacted me on monday and we went to the museam this friday. It was a lovely night. We took the bus again and I said "see you soon" at my bus stop. For now, what is the best, waited for him to make the next move? Like zéro contact on my side or just write to him a thank you for the nice evening ? Thanks à lot!

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Guakamolly · 03/12/2022 05:47

Why would you thank him for the evening? This is something you effectively invited him to and organised unless he did something extra like a meal that he organised and paid for? He is the one who should thank you. I would wait for him to contact if I don't hear back in a week then he's not interested.

I find with extroverts they go quiet around someone they fancy or get really nervous.

Trez1510 · 03/12/2022 05:54

I wouldn't contact him.

You invited him, he accepted and I'd say the ball's in his court to thank you and/or arrange another date.

nancydroo · 03/12/2022 06:13

First have a think of you saw him again what would you like to do if anything. Or how would you like to see him on a more regular basis. Then contact him see if he's interested.

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Mimi198 · 03/12/2022 22:20

He wrote to me on saturday morning. Saying that next time were gona have a meal together. We are both busy at this time of year, so I think I will wait for his invitation.

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candycane10 · 03/12/2022 22:33

I'm confused. You went out on Friday night, he then text you on Saturday morning saying next time you should go for a meal.

Why would you now text him thanking him for Friday night? Have you replied to his suggestion to go for a meal?

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Mimi198 · 03/12/2022 23:11

I was asking if I should thank him but finaly he wrote me first.

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bluejelly · 03/12/2022 23:17

Sounds like you are both keen 👍

Angela59 · 04/12/2022 08:13

Flirt baby! lol
let him know you fancy him! X

candycane10 · 04/12/2022 10:17

Mimi198 · 03/12/2022 23:11

I was asking if I should thank him but finaly he wrote me first.

Ah ok! That's a great sign 😀

Hopelesslove · 04/12/2022 19:41

Accept the meal offer for n a way that makes it sound like something you’d love to do! Get him excited to see you again!

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