my Marriage is in a point that just feels totally broken, we have a 10.5 month old and we just want different things from family life.
My Husband refuses to adapt and change - it feels like his priorities are going out with his mates and getting drunk. I feel like I have to constantly tell him to spend time with our little girl.
I have fought and fought but I just don’t get what I need from him. I’ve never felt so vulnerable, alone and unsupported. We argue so much because he can’t ever see my perspective. I don’t see how we come back from this which terrifies me, the concept of bringing my little girl up from a marriage break down, breaks my heart. The guilt is unimaginable but as I force this relationship I can feel that I am just losing myself completely. He makes me out to be irrational and unreasonable because I expect more support from him.
I suppose I’m looking for someone who’s bee through this and come out the other side because right now I’m terrified.