porn

[racheldublin1]

Hi everyone. I went through my boyfriends computer and found out he used to rent out his house to shoot porn videos. He claims he had nothing to do with it. I live with him. After seeing the videos of the girls in my room on a porn site (uploaded 5 years ago) I feel upset and hurt, despite the fact it was before me. It is hard for me to be in my room and my bathroom, knowing what happened in here. Am I being too over dramatic? I feel disgusted often and take my anger out on him. I know it was before me and it was legal, but I just feel uncomfortable even though he is so wonderful to me. He has never cheated on me and is very respectful. How can I learn to accept it and not feel resentment? He doesn't sympathise becase as i said, it was legal and in the past before he knew me.

I hope you can get past this if he is as yiu say so wonderful. I would be concerned if he had lied though. On another note, I would question, why you were going through his computer. Hope you fund sime peace with the situation so you can both enjoy your relationship.

was he in those porn videos?

lying is not good, or the fact that he isin’t supportive of you right now.

I would feel exactly the same. My home is my haven and that would be tarnished even if it was before. Could you move and have a fresh start ?

It’s not great. But everyone has a past, and there’s little point being jealous or upset about something that happened when you weren’t on the scene. As long as he’s not filming porn in your house now I’d let it go or if will ruin your relationship

Did you know he used to do this? The fact that he doesn't even understand hour unease is a big red flag.