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Negative thoughts

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michi973 · 27/11/2022 10:55

Hi there, me and my boyfriend are currently separated but still dating. My biggest problem is the negative thoughts and constant thoughts he might lie to me (he lied to me before, nothing major, but stuff like going out and not telling me, or chatting with different girls).

It's been a while since that and he is true to his word, no more lying, but I still cannot shake the feeling that something is off.

Am I overthinking? Should I trust him fully? What can I do, it's really consuming me.

OP posts:
category12 · 27/11/2022 11:11

If the trust is broken, it's really hard to get back, and frankly it's often not worth it. It's always a possibility the lying and shady behaviour could come back. Since you're already separated, why not just cut the rope? It might be a relief.

What's keeping you struggling on with it?

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