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Is this creepy?

27 replies

Cluelessman · 25/11/2022 01:13

A woman I have known for a year plus online is now in my country. We have met a few times and she wanted more but my economic situation was difficult. We message each other every day. I'm helping her find accommodation. She hasn't replied today. I'm worried about her safety. She mighy have been viewing rooms etc...

If she's got someone I don't care. I'm not jealous. I kind of just care about her well being.

If I contact some friends and a cousin of hers here in Manchester via Instagram is it ok? They lived with her here but she moved to a hostel...

She never introduced me to them but they appeared as Instagram suggestions and I recognised the names she mentioned...

Or is it the act of a stalker...

Her phone is still off....

OP posts:
GerbilsForever24 · 25/11/2022 09:54

These sort of posts are actually quite frightening. The speed with which it turns when the answer is not one they want? The defensiveness and aggression because we aren't appreciating he's a "nice guy".

Frightens me.

Naunet · 25/11/2022 09:57

lollipoprainbow · 25/11/2022 06:17

Don't bother asking for advice here OP, there are so many man haters it's unreal.

Man haters?! 😂 Well at least all us man haters do is call out creepy behaviour online, at least we’re not out there raping and murdering men and bitching about how we should all be assigned a young good looking male to own like incels do and creating subreddits that talk about how we love to abuse men during sex.

Get some perspective mate.

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