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Is this emotional abuse....

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Kelly09sm · 24/11/2022 23:14

I am really struggling to see things clearly at the moment. I've been having doubts for a long time but I sent know if it's ke that's hard work...

He recently had a massive issue with ne and the DC going away on a family holiday, he didn't want to go himself but also didn't want us to go.

He walks into a room in the morning and says good morning to my daughter and completely ignores me.

We went out for a meal recently and I drank 3/4 of a glass of wine and said I was done, then infront of DC he said oh no you need to finish your drink. We left the table and he sat there for 10 mins!

He doesn't talk to me for days on end if I make a decision he doesn't like...

What does a normal relationship look like... ?

OP posts:
Pinkbonbon · 25/11/2022 00:14

Well, it sounds controlling in the very least.

I hope you just left him at that restaurant table and didn't go back and drink the wine.

Here's the thing, rather than working out if his behaviour is abusive, how about just admitting you aren't happy in this relationship.

Give yourself permission to leave.
You only get one life.

Pinkbonbon · 25/11/2022 00:18

(And what a relationship 'should' look like, in our opinion, doesn't really matter. What matters is if you are happy in the one you are in or not. Its YOUR life).

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