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He's driving me nuts, men!!!

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BITCAT · 31/01/2008 10:39

I just don't know how much more i can take. We've been together for almost 14yrs and have 4 children together but i am sick of being critised for everything i do!! I mean he, children and myself always have decent meals on table and clean clothes everyday and the house is always clean and tidy. Last 4 weeks he has complained and shouted at me for everything, and they are petty things. I mean yesterday i was upstairs putting some washing away, my mobile was charging in kitchen so i didn't hear my phone ring, i found out later that 1 of kids had turned house phone off. I noticed missed calls on my phone when i came down so called him back all i got was yelled at down the phone because i didn't answer my phone!! I sure he thinks that i sit on my backside all day waiting for my phone to ring. Other silly things like putting a knife in washing up bowl with tiny bit of jam on it, he starts row over it!! i sometimes think i would be better off on my own and i would be lot less stressed!!

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MamaG · 31/01/2008 10:41

Have you talked to him about what how -much- -of- -a- -wanker- unreasonable he is being? Is he very stressed at work and taking it out on you?

MamaG · 31/01/2008 10:42

oh
two hyphens

mum2jakeyroo · 31/01/2008 10:47

My dp is the same at the min but tbh is probably quite stressed. He is due to go in hospital tomorrow for an operation and I have recently come out of work. So I am letting him off for the moment.So like mamag says could he be stressed over something else

BITCAT · 31/01/2008 11:25

I have tried to talk to him but just get yelled at, we've had conversation before about leaving work at work and not taking it out on me. I work weekends and have kids all week and i don't yell and ball at him when i get in from work or when he comes home from work no matter how far the kids have pushed me!! I come home sun from work and he was going nuts at kids, and he actually said he wished he'd never had any!! I don't know but i have warned him that if it carries on then it's going to end because i can do without being shouted at in front of the kids, how am i supposed to keep control of them if daddy's allowed to shout at mummy then they will try it, and i'm never going to get any respect from them

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