I'm fed up of my husband saying one thing and meaning another, final straw tonight.
I think I'm perimenopausal and have, amongst other symptoms, been struggling with really bad fatigue at certain times during my cycle. Talked about this and he insisted I go to the GP, I didn't go...can't see what can be done at this point as it's so early on.
Anyways, OH suggested I get an early night to get a decent night's sleep (he's very good at suggesting at what I 'need' to do and not do but I appreciate the thought of a full 8 hours!), then goes in a big man-strop because he claims there's always something that gets in the way of us having sex/intimacy. I've not even said anything back, I've had enough now of him doing things like that.
Why suggest I go to sleep early and turn it around to make me feel like shit for doing something he suggested? If I say anything it'll end up in him saying 'he's allowed to feel that way and that's that'.
He's actually made a real effort recently to be nicer but this has just wound me up.