Been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years and I have been dissatisfied with us having sex for well over two years now. When I was younger I had a very good sexual appetite and since meeting my current boyfriend, it's completely gone out the window. He's very attractive, tall, gentle, kind - everything you could ask in a man. But there's something that's always kind of put me off, not sure if it's since I've gained weight or perhaps insecurities.
We bought a house two years ago and moved in together and we get on like a house on fire, we are very very good friends and get along really well.
He's very 'cute' in the sense that he's got a weird side to him and calls me names like princess and bunny etc which I've grown to find quite sweet and others find it grotesque. I just still feel like something is missing. I'm not overly happy although I should be, we do not have sex and I don't have that cuddly kissy side like I used to. I almost feel permanently uncomfortable?
I'm torn, because I feel as though I don't want to be with him but at the same time I do. I don't want to feel the grass is greener elsewhere when it won't be. But I also don't want to be making a mistake. Someone help!