This message may end up a little graphic.
Ive been with my SO for 2 years, and lived together for 1 year. Our relationship is solid, in every aspect apart from sex. He is loving, attentive, cuddly... but...
He is just no longer interested in me sexually. Ive tried to discuss this but it just gets shrugged off.
He used to be all over me, and when i asked what changed - he said "we could get caught then" (he had a female flatmate at that time and now I live with him)
He doesnt look at me like he used to. If we do do anything.... it's only on a weekend morning and all he does to me is finger me. And he cant even seem to look at me if we are doing stuff. Id always make sure he would get to climax though.
He also has erection problems which, initially i was quite understanding but now i think there is more to it.
I've walked in on him masturbating to naked girl pictures. So he does still have a working manhood. I do wonder if perhaps theres some sort of addiction there. Im also pretty sure he browses similiar images when ive popped to the bathroom though I cant be sure.
Back when his flatmate was living there, both of us has discovered that he had taken screenshots of his friends daughter (she is 21, not underage!) He was embarrased to say the least!!
In the 2 years that we've been together... we have never properly kissed. Ive never been in a relationship like this.
Again, all other aspects are good and he certainly does treat me well. But i cant be without sex. I've become so self concious and anxious. And he knows it.
I do recall mentioning to him that he doesnt even look at my body, and he said "thats because its always there and im used to it"
Ahhhhhh. Please, has anyone been in this situation? Did it ever get better?
What would you do?
Thank you for reading.