22 years!!

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Me and my other half have come to an end it’s not official but I’ve said I’d leave after Christmas we aren’t on speaking terms! I’m tired of arguing all the time and snapping. He’s miserable am miserable. Any views on how to work through this or does it sound like too much water is under the bridge???

What are you arguing about? Have you tried therapy? Di you have kids? Married? How easy is it just to move?

Sounds very stressful at the minute for you.

We have 2 boys 10 & 12. We just bought a house together, mainly over the kids we argue then there is money etc. we don’t even sit in same room on a night.

I was in your position this time last year OP. It's a bloody miserable place to be, we were just waiting to get Christmas over with as we didn't want to ruin it for our 10 year old.

Last January we couldn't go through with it, we limped on until April. We were both miserable and our hearts weren't really in it.

Sadly I still feel really torn up about the separation, but we sold our family home recently which brought everything to the surface. I'm hoping in time we'll both be happier, but we really couldn't have continued the way we were.

Good luck x

Also meant to say we'd been together 21 years and had just moved into a new house!