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Why is ex messaging me after 2 years?

8 replies

aillingbailling · 14/11/2022 14:10

We haven't spoke in 2 years.
She ended it with me 2 and a bit years ago now.
She broke my heart-huge narcissist
Loves or loved the women and the stories I could tell you of how cruel she was you wouldn't believe.
She got married to her new girlfriend after 11 months and i heard about it on Facebook (mutual friends and my best friend is on her Facebook )
Anyway I met someone new and we have been together 17 months.
We live together and I'm happy.
It's pretty clear I'm with someone as my fb pic is of the both of us and I have her best friend on my socials too.
So why message me?
After this long ?
After how it ended ?
Would you even reply?
She ignored my last message 2 years ago so why shouldn't I do the same.

OP posts:
OtterOnToast · 14/11/2022 14:10

How on earth do we know why she's messaging you? Just ask her or ignore it.

blahblah33 · 14/11/2022 14:11

Said yourself - huge narcissist. Ignore and block.

imaditto · 14/11/2022 14:16

I'm sure you've posted about her before or someone in a similar situation

Ignore/block. She's clearly not a positive person in your life. Don't give her a second thought!

Cigarettesaftersex1 · 14/11/2022 14:17

Definitely been posted before and recently too. What did you do last time? Do that again

Aquamarine1029 · 14/11/2022 14:19

Why on earth would you reply at all? Only trouble would come of it. You should have blocked her already.

GreenManalishi · 14/11/2022 14:29

Should you reply? I can't see any reason why you would even consider it.

Watchkeys · 14/11/2022 15:03

She's messaged you because for some reason, she wants something from you. She wants to know she can still bother you.

She ignored my last message 2 years ago so why shouldn't I do the same

You need to answer this for yourself. Whose rules do you follow, to tell you what you 'should' do in your life? There are no laws about this stuff, so how do you know what's right or wrong for you? Who sets the boundaries?

FetchezLaVache · 14/11/2022 15:06

Who cares why, or what she wants? You are clearly in a good place and much happier without her in your life, so just ignore the message.

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