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Krmel1995 · 13/11/2022 19:23

Is my husband Cheating online or are these just pop ups? I have found them on several occasions one after another .. I am aware my husband watches porn but is this normal for just random pop ups?

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EarthSight · 13/11/2022 19:53

The fact that they're one after another like this either suggests he's watching a lot of cam stuff, or, he's going on porn websites and deleting his history in a certain way.

He might be searching his history for the word 'sex' or 'porn', deleting all the relevant sites in one go, which would then mean these pop-up sites are all that's left. I notice that all of the ones pictured don't contain the words 'porn' or 'sex', so they could have escaped his attention and deletion.

strangeflowers · 13/11/2022 22:06

That is a massively preoccupied phone. I dont care too much about porn or who watches it, but on the fairly rare occasions that I do, nothing like this appears on any of my devices. Whatever this is, and it doesn't automatically suggest adultery, it most certainly suggests over investment.

Pinkbonbon · 13/11/2022 23:04

🤢🤮
Best case scenario he's a total fucking obsessive creep.

Worst case scenario he is also a cheat.

Icing on the cake really cheating though isn't it, if thats his search history.

Raveon2000 · 14/11/2022 09:50

Seeing this would put me right off the man! It's like a 15 year old boys search history 🤢

Watchkeys · 14/11/2022 10:47

Doesn't it just turn you right off him that his phone looks like that at all, and that you have to come to a forum to find out what he's up to rather than being able to ask him?

Sunshine0110 · 14/11/2022 16:05

Does he use streaming sites for watching films or football matches? I use bflix for films and the adverts open automatically so show up in search history.

If he isn’t using either of the above then sorry to say it looks like he has an obsession with porn ☹️

LittleBlueLadenDownWithDew · 14/11/2022 21:53

I suspect these are pop ups that ping up when he's watching porn. To add, even if your DH was on these webcam sites doesn't mean he was interacting/cheating. They're free to watch, but people can pay tokens to interact with the porn actor/actress or pay for a private show. None of the history you have screenshotted suggests your DH was paying for anything however.

Closetbeanmuncher · 14/11/2022 23:17

Definitely not pop ups op, sorry.

Way too thirsty for my respect, agree with the 15 year old boy comment….yuck.

Closetbeanmuncher · 14/11/2022 23:18

Moreover, is there a reason you’ve looked suspicions etc?

Krmel1995 · 15/11/2022 03:23

Yes he watches online cricket matches like almost everyday ...

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Sunshine0110 · 15/11/2022 03:29

It could be the streaming site he uses, the football ones are terrible for it. The pop ups show up in search history as they automatically open constantly when trying to watch a match.
Its frustrating but cheaper than paying for film and sports channels.

Krmel1995 · 15/11/2022 03:32

We've been distant for the past little while and not living together due to circumstances I am not going to get into right now .. also we have a 15 month old daughter together and I am 5 months pregnant with our next... Reason I have suspicion and looked is because he has a lot of spam calls coming in that he hasn't before and won't answer when I am around and it made me feel like I needed to be concerned about something. Our sex life is great and we are living together again but these calls only started when we were apart for a few days at a time.

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Sunshine0110 · 15/11/2022 03:41

I’m sorry to hear that ☹️ I know it won’t be easy as your hormones will be going crazy now too. I’m currently 32 weeks along and it’s been tough so I can sympathise with how you must be feeling.
How is communication between you two? You should be able to ask why he’s not answering these calls and how it’s making you feel uneasy. A supportive partner would at least try to put your mind at rest when you are so vulnerable x

Anothernick · 15/11/2022 07:37

Yes, some of these sites are interactive and the messages (deleted profiles) suggest that he has downloaded things, pop ups would not download things without action by him.

As others have said you need to talk to talk to him about this.

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