I need to vent. I’m so so sick of being manipulated
Been NC with narc dm for a while but she asks and asks to see ds. Messages get through from various people and I’d ignored but recently ds has been saying he misses her so I relented. I thought I’ll be firm about boundaries and she agreed to everything but I think that was just to get it in place . She’s meant to be seeing him tomorrow and it’s started - changing the plans and being difficult and I want to say fuck it cancel it .
I don’t drive and she does so I’d said ‘you can collect him at x time’ she’s now complaining about that and wants him dropped to her. She had said she was taking him for lunch, now she wants me to send a packed lunch or the money for his lunch?? She had said it was ‘her treat’ now she’s saying that she will add up what she spends so I can pay her back (she’s not short of money- we are!!). She keeps changing times and I can tell this is going to be used somehow to sabotage my day as I’ve planned to get stuff done as will be child free and I’d made the mistake of saying dh and I are taking the dog out for a walk somewhere further than usual as we can’t walk that far when we have ds with us and she’s clearly irritated by that ?? That I’ll get to do something I enjoy and have a break but I didn’t ask her to babysit she’s been begging to see ds
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