Just that really? 15 years together. 4 kids. I'm so unbelievable lonely in this relationship! Have a good group of friends but its just not the same. He works long hours and I'm running a small business from home along with all child and home related issues so were both obviously knackered. Its also been a shit year of things going wrong for us which I won't go into details as it could be outing. (No cheating or anything like that) I just feel like it's created an invisible barrier that I can't quite put my finger on.. most probably resentment come to think of it. 99% of everything falls to me. It's got to the point I'm applying for jobs outside the home alongside my business just so i can have a break from it all. He's not a bad guy I just don't think he really 'hears' what I'm saying when we've spoke about it. Does anyone have any advice? I feel like I'm going to have a breakdown if this goes on any longer. Yes I've told him this.