and feeling a bit deflated. Wasn't a long relationship and if I'm honest had more problems than it should have during what should have been the honeymoon period. He has complex mental health problems which he was always honest about and there were a decent amount of red flags including all of his exes being crazy and nothing ever being his fault when previous relationships ended. But on a day to day basis we got on well and laughed a lot. There was a sticking point that despite not working he would argue about why I was needy asking for him to message me good morning. It became a big deal for me purely because whenever he asked anything of me he got it, no question. I ask for something and I get arguments about why he shouldn't. I have some issues surrounding childhood that I'm in therapy for and was honest about things that mean a lot to me. Material things don't interest me, it's all about effort and communication. Once something upset him I'd get the silent treatment for days, a huge trigger for me. I can't live like that so after a weekend of being ignored I've ended things, I've got the blame for being unreasonable and it's my issue that's caused this. Part of me feels relieved and that I've stood up for what I want but the other part thinks that I have thrown something good away. I've been through narcissistic abuse before and not sure I'm not projecting those memories on to him. There's no going back for us, it's definitely done but any thoughts or support or just a handhold would be much appreciated.