Need support for no contact

[ineedtogetalife]

Hi

Long time lurker in need of help.

I've been seeing someone long distance for over 4 years. He's wanted to live together but t my circumstances make that difficult.

He's now getting to know someone else and I'm devastated.

I've just blocked him but it's so hard.

Help me get through this.
I know I'm worth more but feel rubbish.

Tbh he knows I loved him but the reality was when I wasn't with him he was completely on his own.

I know I'm not blame less.

The thing Is I feel if this new woman's circumstances were better he would probably just dump me for her and that would be it.

She apparently has 5 kids, the youngest is 4 and 2 have additional needs and are not easy. Also. Understandably she doesn't work. There is absolutely no way she would be able to do the things we have done.

We go on holiday 2 to 4 times a year, have weekends in London and at the coast.

Also we are both in our 50s and we have jobs and money.

So I went to see him. Feel shit but also realise he's not the right person for me but it's so hard to let go

Oh OP.

STOP SEEING HIM.

Please block him. How do you contact each other? Because you need to cut ties immediately.

I’m sorry but you’ll not get much sympathy now. It’s really hard we understand. But you’re honestly doing yourself no favours here. You need to block him and get some self respect.

He obviously just wants an easy shag on tap. Don’t allow him to. You need to make the changes here.

@FlissyPaps
I'm sorry I think I've lost my self respect