I have a 5yo and a 3yo with my boyfriend of 10yrs . We moved from one state where we were renting an apartment to another state where he owned a home because it was cheaper . A couple or years in his attitude changed when I would have company over ( usually only my family ) he would get upset and lock himself in our bedroom. It came to a point where I stopped inviting them over . I pay all the utilities care for the kids groceries etc and he still wants me to pay property taxes . We only have 1 vh which I own and I pay for the insurance and he feels since it’s insured at HIS house he can utilize it whenever he please without filling up the tank .When his mom comes over he expects me to give up our bed which our toddlers sneak in at night to accommodate her . He wakes up on days that I have off blasting Alexa and yelling not singing but yelling songs at the top of his lungs and when I ask him to please lower it he tells me it’s his house he can do as he please . I AM SICK OF IT AT THIS POINT ! . I am mentally physically and emotionally drained but I am scared to move my kids out of a house into a shelter until I am able to find an apartment . He makes me feel so small I don’t even recognize myself anymore . I can go on and on for days about the situation but I just feel stuck !